Welcome to SexDrive! Whatever your sexual preference or gender is please remember everyone in the free world has a right to be what they want to be without fear or recrimination. Be kind to everyone especially if they hold a different viewpoint. What makes this world so interesting is diversity. SexDrive covers many aspects - click on a heading below and see a summary, and if you're interested you can go and read more about it!

Here are some initial thoughts about sex. GO!

Here are some facts and stats  about sex. GO!

One aspect of sex is that it can lead to a lasting relationship. This section explores what good relationships look like.  GO!

However well a relationship starts, it’s possible that at some point it will go wrong. See how and why. GO!

There is a difference between the act of sex and making love – one is purely physical while the other has more emotional attachment. Explore this further. GO!

Sometimes a bit of fantasy can spice up sex (50 Shades of Grey!), but it’s easy for this to go too far.  See some interesting facts and alarming detail about pornography and other sexual adventure.  GO!

More people are now looking to find their partner through dating sites than via face to face meetings – does this work, and what should you be careful of?  GO!

There seems to be an ever increasing number of genders- what used to be fairly simple has changed completely.  Who is driving this change, and how can you keep abreast of it?  GO!

Sex and sexuality can cause some real problems, for mental and physical health, such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and just growing older problems – see more on this  GO!

As the newness of your relationship wears off and the excitement starts to fade, the relationship can feel like it’s growing stale. You aren’t forced to remain in a dull and boring relationship, however. There are some steps you can take to keep a mature relationship fresh and exciting.   GO!

If you’re a visitor to our site you can join and download information, assess your own health and create your own action plans, and even contribute to our site.  GO!

We have a video and some ideas on next steps you can take. GO!

We have some additional information on this subject. GO!

Some Initial Thoughts

The act of sex

Humans have a natural instinct to have sex and there are many reasons for this. The body craves for the chemicals and emotions that sex and intimacy bring. The feeling before, during and after everyone needs and wants but increasingly it is coming under pressure from lifestyle. Sex is also very good for our health.

A good sex life is good for your heart. Besides being a great way to raise your heart rate, sex helps keep your oestrogen and testosterone levels in balance. “When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease,” MayoClinic says. Having sex more often may help.

Is your lifestyle affecting your love life?

If you are suffering with lifestyle issues and it is impacting on your love life then SexDrive is a good read for you. We use the term love life because it’s not just about the physical elements of sex but also the emotional elements of loving. When stress, anxiety or depression starts it can affect how we behave lovingly to others in our family and partners regardless of gender.

Some of the statistics will surprise you and some of the issues people are suffering you may well be suffering from. You may consider you don’t have a problem in which case you may want to learn something new about how to improve your sex life.

SexDrive looks at some of the myths and statistics that may surprise and also looks at the gender explosion.

Facts About Sex

Sex and Sexuality

Crash Course talk about sex and sexuality in a Sociology framework

“Sex is an emotion in motion.”
Mae West
American stage and film actress, playwright, screenwriter, singer, and sex symbol

Next Steps

It doesn’t matter what stage  you’re at – it’s important to be the best you can be.  At the end of the day it’s about taking personal responsibility – You Drive!

It’s really your choice. You can find out more information about the subject, or see other institutions that can help by going to Support. There you will find organisations, training, coaching, self-help courses and other items to support your personal change. We have also started developing a panel of experts to provide info, advice, help and support. 

Get Support

There are times when you need some help to meet your aims. At YouDriveHealth we try to help you to take control of your own health. Sometimes however you need a helping hand. That might be in the form of an organisation that can provide you with some help, it might be getting some specialised information or support, or just getting some background reading material.

We also show you links to other sites offering support in this area and also some products and services which might help you on our Support pages, which you can go to by clicking the Support button here.  

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As the next step we are compiling a list of experts who can help you, whether by providing advice, help or specialised services.  In the future you will be able to access these experts from anywhere on our site you see our ‘Experts’ symbol.  If you click the green E you’ll see what our Experts list will look like, with a couple of imaginary ‘experts’ added!

We will be adding to our list of experts continually; we try to recommend things and partners that we have used ourselves, but obviously we can’t take any responsibility for any specific outcomes.  

More Information

Scroll down to see more information on this Drive.  If you register with us by providing an email address you can also download reports, white papers, quizzes and other collaterals.  Don’t worry, we will never ask you for any financial information, and we’ll only send you the information you want.

You can register for our site either above or in the footer below, and there’s more information available and you can comment and participate in discussions too.  We want to encourage our members to provide their own questions and experiences in order to help other members.  We only moderate for spam and inflammatory language – see our moderation policy.

Soon you will be able to register as a YouDriver – you’ll get your own health dashboard, be able to assess your own health, look at how to improve it and build your own action plans.

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More information

Healthline have tips on couples having better sex

The Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity

YoungMinds have a good article on gender and mental health

The Mayo Clinic have information on premature ejaculation 

NHS info on premature ejaculation

NHS info on women’s orgasm issues

MBC Psychiatry have an article on gender differences

Entrepreneur offer 14 ways to improve your skills

Healthline have info on sex addiction

Verywellminds have an article on the symptoms of sex addiction

If you’re concerned you may have a sexually transmitted disease, see symptoms (Mayo Clinic)